SELL SMARTER

The Intersection of AI and Emotional Intelligence

Today's buyers and sellers stand at the threshold of transformation, equipped to harness data, empathy, and technology to elevate every interaction. In this new era of AI business models, decisions unfold with confidence and speed, driven by sharper insights and a richer understanding of what truly matters.

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About SELL SMARTER

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Sell Smarter provides insights on the overlap between artificial and emotional intelligence and the challenges for leadership, especially in sales. Today's buyers and sellers stand at the threshold of transformation, equipped to harness data, empathy, and technology to elevate every interaction. In this new era of AI business models, decisions unfold with confidence and speed, driven by sharper insights and a richer understanding of what truly matters.

Topics & Intelligences

  • Emotional General Intelligence

  • Know Your Sales Chi

  • Psychology of Selling

  • Sales Challenges, Cycles, & Drive

  • Artificial Intelligence (AI)

  • Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

  • Art of Selling Smarter

Praise for SELL SMARTER

  • Murray has always had a fantastic approach to technology selling.  He possesses high emotional intelligence and offers valuable insights regarding the upcoming intersection with AI.

  • Having worked with James during the COVID-19 pandemic, I learned the importance of active listening, empathy, and persistence.  His style is exemplified through leadership by example.

  • I hired James during the B2B sales craze and needed someone who could be a differentiator, a collaborator, and work effectively in a highly dynamic, rapidly growing environment.  He was an instrumental part of our leadership team…

  • I am always amazed when I meet someone like James Murray with a very high EQ.  He managed strategic selling across multicultural audiences and consistently delivered successful outcomes for both parties.  As we traveled together across Asia and the US, I witnessed his charisma as he communicated sophisticated technical material with ease and composure.


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Chapter Summaries

  • Emotional General Intelligence:

    The two most powerful influences in a salesperson’s life are about to collide. These two forces will shape everything we do in ways that are unstoppable - like a hot knife through butter - and will “carve us” into individuals who must effortlessly manage an unpredictable future filled with daily challenges in how we operate as sales leaders.

  • Sales Chi:

    As we dig deeper into how artificial and emotional intelligence will shape our future, it is essential to review a few key baselines from our current set of attributes, styles, and tools. We know that AI will make its way into our everyday lives, and how we embrace this change will determine our effectiveness in the profession.

  • Psychology of Selling:

    Understanding the psychology behind selling reveals why buyers ponder, hesitate, act, or ultimately decide to make a purchase. Emotional, cognitive, and sensory factors all play critical roles. The influential triggers include excitement, fear, and sadness. Sellers who are passionate and genuinely believe in their product often experience increased conversions, as their enthusiasm is contagious.


  • Sales Challenges:

    Professional salespeople encounter a diverse set of challenges in their daily work. Some of these relate directly to their job tasks, while others arise from the surrounding environment or their personal well-being. Most salespeople accept that their job brings challenges that impact their lives; however, the upside of commissions typically offsets the impact of long hours and crazy work-life balance.


  • Sales Drive:

    Olympic athletes are renowned for their extraordinary drive and motivation, which set them apart both physically and mentally from their peers. Their relentless pursuit of excellence is fueled by a combination of intrinsic and extrinsic factors, including self-improvement, motivation, a love of competition, and practical goal setting.


  • Sales Cycles:

    For every type of sale, there is an associated sales cycle. Simple cycles typically involve low-cost, high-volume purchases, with straightforward decision-making. These are often transactional, involving one or two decision-makers, quick evaluations, and minimal negotiations.


  • Artificial Intelligence:

    Although artificial and emotional intelligences are not new, this book could not have been written until now. In the past, we could elaborate on the importance of being self-aware, empathetic, and self-controlled and self-driven as a standard for evaluating emotional intelligence as it applies to our world.


  • Emotional Intelligence:

    Emotional intelligence, or EQ, is best understood as the ability to recognize, understand, and manage one’s own emotions and those of others. Crucially, managing emotions does not mean suppressing or controlling them; instead, it involves acknowledging and understanding them.


  • Sales Excellence:

    Leadership positions require extensive knowledge and experience. Seldom do CEO’s rise to the top of an organization without demonstrating their skills in management and decision-making. A few exceptions include founders who often possess enough skills, or perhaps a majority of popular skills, to maintain the role until a major hurdle requires a change.


  • Sell Smarter:

    The art of selling may be aging gracefully as we move into the next phase of technology influence. Over the past 25 years, there has been significant growth in sales tools, informational databases, social media platforms, and the ability to survive through the pandemic. After 2025, we will forever be known as the generation that embraced artificial intelligence and became “smarter” salespeople.

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About the Author


James L. Murray lives in California with his wife and two children. He is an accomplished sales leader with experience selling technology products and services for companies ranging from early-stage (startups) to multi-billion dollar enterprises. His career started in space and satellite communications, semiconductors, and professional services. He has developed business plans and raised venture capital for Series A and B rounds, served as a key representative at roadshows and NASDAQ IPOs, and participated in several mergers and acquisitions (M&A) transactions.

Over the past fifteen years, James has been instrumental in leading strategic sales teams in professional services. His management style is characterized by leading by example and active listening, and he is recognized for his high emotional intelligence. He is well-educated, holding advanced degrees in engineering and business administration. His passions include abstract art, exotic fish, tennis, and vintage muscle cars. He holds a US patent, has written multiple books, and founded a Silicon Valley startup.

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